Dear Brats

You have taken over my life completely. Appa and I have no time for each other. Really! And thats not a good thing. the only way we communicate with each other is via whatsapp! I wonder what couples did before whatsapp and multiple kids!!

I am not complaining though. Its just a phase and hopefully it will pass soon and we can ‘Do’ things together as a family. You know take vacations, go out for kulfis and golas after dinner, go watch a funny play, attend a book reading, generally have a lazy sunday watching something funny on TV. Yes, I am so looking forward to these family things you know.

R2, am just waiting for you to grow up a bit more, gal. Its like we want to do things, but then we remember oh, you are too tiny to do anything at all!

You have been sick for the past one week, and it has been heart breaking to see you spend sleepless nights with your skin errupting into rashes. Your appetite is an all time low and you have even stopped feeding on my milk in the night, no matter what I do. The only person who can wriggle a smile out of you is your Akka. The only person who can make you take out that gummy smile. You have lost weight (Appa says, its a big percentage considering your overall weight hehe)

You dont seem to like me much. Whenever I greet you after coming back from work, you just stare at me, give a nonchantly shrug of your shoulder and get back to doing whatever you are doing. Errr..thats a bit harsh on my barely existent maternal love, but guess, you are one of a kind eh?

When you broke into rashes, I told the doctor, but but, my older one never had such issues. He told me ‘you have two kids and they ARE DIFFERENT!, dont expect the second one to react exactly like the first one to any situation. They are different’

I must admit in 7 months of your existence, this is the first time, I realised it really! Guess you are like your Akka in a lot of ways, but unique otherwise.
R, you have to let me cut your hair babes. Its getting on to my nerves. Everyday we have a fight. EVERY.SINGLE.DAY! God knows why you think you have hair like Elsa and keep putting that 1.3532 inch of hair in the front from the back, as if its some 100 metres long…sigh! Girl, really, I am dreading to handle you in your teens…

You are your sister’s best friend but fight so much with her. Amma, you are always only doing R2 R2 you tell me and when I let her cry for a while because I am doing something to you, you push me towards her saying ‘Amma why are you making her cry, go go go to her’

Kid, you sure confuse me a lot!

Your behaviour sometimes, is appaling, but at times, you are the chammtest kid on earth…

Both you girls are getting very close to your Appa. Which makes him happy..and hey makes me also happy πŸ™‚ Go trouble him while I relax with a book and a filter kaapi in hand!!

Nothing much to add, I have tons to write, but just no time. I will try and squeeze in a letter once a while.

I love both of you a lot

Amma

I love my Akka and Akka loves me too, she squeezes me as if I am an orange, but I still love her

I love my Akka and Akka loves me too, she squeezes me as if I am an orange, but I still love her

Give me those chappals they are my favorite!a

Give me those chappals they are my favorite!

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20 Responses to Dear Brats

  1. Picture 1: COOKIE MONSTER!!! πŸ˜›
    Picture 2: Did she eat ’em? :D:D:D

  2. Swaram says:

    R is ofcourse chammtest kutty πŸ™‚ Pass on my love to both πŸ˜€

  3. sjscribbles says:

    Awwww,…you kids are so cute RM !
    You are one super mommy, I’ve always admired you and your ways !
    Hope I get to meet you and your family , someday !

  4. Babies are the best contraceptives one can have and after popping out twins, I think even an entire bottle of Viagra is not going to stir up anything in my life!! πŸ˜‰

    Ps: I want a recent pic of both the Rs in my inbox…pronto!

  5. ss says:

    Dear R’s Mom,

    You are my all time favorite blogger. I just love love your honest hear felt writing. This is surely how a mother of two young children would feel – physically and emotionally exhausted, conflicted but totally in love with her brats!!

    Wishing you much joy in your life and some time to write for us!

    SS

  6. OMG so much cutenessssss! πŸ˜€

  7. raaaano says:

    Hey RM, such a lovely post. I feel we are in the same boat, want to do so many things to do but then the little one is so little :). My little one fav is also chappals or for that matter anything which is on the floor.

  8. greenboochi says:

    Omg Omg what cuteness! Loved both the pictures, Muuuuah to both the darlings πŸ™‚

  9. Scribby says:

    these anecdotes make me rush through things real fast πŸ™‚ waiting is so boring RM, sigh!

    When I’ll be on the other side, we’ll cry on each others’ shoulders, well, on whatsapp πŸ˜‰ so what!

  10. These are such lovely pics , here is wishing lots of good wishes for all of you !

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