Dear R2

You are here. And you proved that you share your sister’s penchant for jewelry when you managed to wound the umbilical cord around your neck, not once, but twice!!!!

The doc had to operate Amma midst a labour where she had already dilated 10 cms but you wouldn’t come down. Twenty mins of mayhem but the doc finally put her foot down when your heartbeat started to fall down drastically. And you had to be removed surgically. You managed to panic your Appa and your Amma was like okay whatever.

When your Barodu thathi went back home from the hospital to pick up your akka, you decided to come out. And when Appa called up home to inform thathi, R akka had just come in and picked up the phone.Her first reaction to the news was

” Yayayayayayayayayyaya I got a baby sister yayayyayayayayayayayyayayay”.

She has been the epitome of the proudest and most helpful older sister. Of course, I dont know how long the excitment will last, but till date she talks to you, waits for you to open your eyes, sings for you, gets me diapers when you do potty, even throws away the water n cotton after cleaning your bum. In short she is everything I was sure she wont be. Of course, there are spurts of I want my amma and baby stop crying when amma is reading to me but all in all she seems to have accepted you with full heart. She got all her building friends home to ‘SHOW’ you off :). She has a million queries from why the cut below my tummy to how all I eat gets transformed to milk to how your potty is not like hers πŸ™‚

Appa is over the moon. All through the pregnancy he maintained a stoic silence when folks asked him if he wanted a girl or a boy. HeΒ andΒ I both would mention we wanted a healthy baby. I dont know what his reaction was when the doc went out to tell him that he got a baby girl, but he has resigned himself to the fact that its going to be a 3:1 ratio in this household πŸ™‚ He has moved around like a man possessed, between hospital and home when ma was with you there. Getting food from home, meds for both of us, juggling between ferrying R akka n thati. In short he was there with a 100 hands and 1000 legs doing everything and anything.

And your Barodu thathi…what can I say? I am just plain blessed to have a mother like her and you are blessed to have a nani like her. Whether it was going back to pick up Akka from the bus while her daughter was in OT or cook food for the family or spend sleepless nights in the hospital or just pick you up and sing you to sleep – she did it all and without a single sigh. With loads of love and honestly a LOT of will power too! She has been the pillar of strength for all of us. Taking care of akka, getting her to school, making her tiffin, doing everything for Amma n you….you are lucky,darling, to have a thathi so wonderful. And whatever you n Akka do,you can never ever repay her for all this!

Your name has been decided by Appa since I got the opportunity to name Akka πŸ™‚

And all your blog aunties and uncles. Sigh! what do I say darling? You have had so many good wishes pouring in. Folks in a particular blog group I am in gave us the surprise of our lives by sending across a beautiful crib even before I got back home from the hospital. And half the folks in the group I havent even met!!!You are a lucky gal surely!

Whether it is sending across the traditional medicines all the way from Kerala by courier or sending me some maternity stuff, my blog friends have done it all :)Thank you so much folks!

I wish you all the love luck andΒ happiness in life darling…I still cant believe am responsible for another human being. The thought scares me a little but hopefully, Appa and I wont goof it up too much.

Loads of love
Amma

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PS – Sorry for the silence on the blog and thanks for all the emails and messages. I am lucky to have a group of virtual friends who are so amazing πŸ™‚

PS 1 – Am going to be silent here for a while as I go through the entire routine of sleepless nights, feeding, potty cleaning. You all be good and I will be back with more updates πŸ™‚

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131 Responses to Dear R2

  1. Wow RM, loads of good wishes to you, RD and R and lots of love to R2 :). No wonder there was too much silence on the blog. Take care all of you!

  2. Bingo's Mom says:

    Congraaaatttttsssss!!!!!!!!!! I am so happy RM!! Take care of your health πŸ™‚
    Love to R and R2 πŸ˜€ πŸ˜€

  3. Shweta says:

    RM!!! What a surprise… And a pleasant one at that! I wasn’t remotely aware about you expecting!! Many Congratulations to the R household!!!

  4. freakyveggie says:

    Welcome to the beautiful world Little R2 ! Hearty congrats to the R family πŸ™‚

  5. UmaS says:

    So…its R2 huh ?? Was wondering whatever happened to you !!
    Congrats on the baby girl…she is sure to bring in prosperity, happiness and lots of joy to your family πŸ™‚
    Many hugs to the little akka…she is a darling ❀
    Of course RM, virtual friends make you feel like you belong there, with them and not anywhere else…bless you !

    • R's Mom says:

      hehhehe ) thanks…

      yep..I am so lucky to have amazing virtual friends. And I will get to you once the girls get older to ask you how to solve fights..hehehhehe

  6. Maddie says:

    Awesome news!! Congratulations to all of you!

  7. Oh my god, I had no idea this has been happening behind the blog πŸ™‚ big congratulations to the proud parents and specially R for becoming an Akka πŸ™‚

  8. Shraddha says:

    Congratulations to the entire R household πŸ™‚ This is such a wonderful news… Please take care and give my hugs n kisses to both the R princesses…

  9. Yayyyy! R2 is here! Many many hearty congratulations to you and family.
    We want more updates! πŸ™‚

  10. srividhya says:

    Congratulations to you and your family. Welcome R2 πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

  11. Congratulations to all 3 of u !!! So glad that atlast R’s prayers are finally answered πŸ™‚

  12. Wow, congratulations and lots of love to the little one! πŸ™‚

  13. God bless you and the little ones… and Yay yay yay!

  14. Lifesong says:

    Big Congrats to the R family πŸ™‚

  15. MR says:

    Congrats on the new addition and much joy and much love .

  16. Many many many congratulations to you and your family RM! πŸ™‚ R is an akka now! yayyy

  17. kaj says:

    What a surprise! Congrats, congrats!

  18. And the cute quotient of this blog doubles! Welcome little R2! πŸ™‚
    So happy for you all!

  19. kinmin says:

    Oh my god, this is great news! Congratulations to you and your family!! πŸ™‚
    I was wondering where you have been all this while.. wishing you a speedy recovery and I hope that R2 is healthy and happy! πŸ™‚

  20. pixie says:

    Awww!! Hugs to the R family!! Congratulations RM! πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

    and super tight hugs to R – she is adorable!

  21. How wonderful!! Many, many congratulations πŸ™‚ Take care.

  22. kirti says:

    Congratulations to the R household on having another member onboard.
    The introduction of R2 is so cute and I am already feeling the same warmth and affection for her what I feel for R.
    Take good rest, have good times and enjoy this phase. Looking forward to more updates as and when you manage to get time ,about R and R2 both.
    Hugs to you all.

  23. Deepa says:

    Very very huge welcome into our crazy, crazy but loving world R2. And do you know why you are the luckiest little person in the world? Let it be remembered that I was the first to let you in on this secret! Because you have the most wonderful, humorous, fun loving(she will be strict when she has to though sweetie..), wise, fundoo Momma.

    And R’s mom, how on earth did you manage to not once(to my recall) mention that you were preggers on this blog. Hmph! I’m a bit perplexed because maybe I missed the announcement. But even more perplexed that you had THIS much energy to write all thru with a peppy, cheerful attitude not to mention make chundo and what not in the scorching summer heat!!! I was a wilting lily(so not lily-ish really) all thru my 9 months.

    Ok, now I’m eagerly waiting for R and R2 updates. What fun for all of us.

    Take care, rest, enjoy R2 thoroughly.

  24. Vinitha says:

    Congratulations! Love to the big akka and R2

  25. Suba says:

    Awesome news! I have always been a silent reader of your blog and a great admirer! As a mom of 2 girls myself, I can only say that you are going to have so much fun πŸ™‚ hearty Congratulations to all of you and God bless both your girls!!

  26. Prachee says:

    yay yay yay..Big big congratulations to R family and heartiest welcome R2…!!
    Take care RM…stay blessed…waiting to get the updates on double Risms now onwards… πŸ™‚

  27. greenboochi says:

    Congrats to you all πŸ™‚ I am so happy for you all – This post made up my monday morning! πŸ™‚

  28. HereandNow says:

    OMG! Congratulations R and R2’s mom !
    A real lovely surprise.

  29. It was a sweet surprise to receive your mail. Can’t wait to see little one. Does she look like R? I am sure your hands are full rt now. Take care and please do come back with more news.

  30. Congrats to entire R’s Family πŸ™‚
    Take Care..
    All the best!!

  31. New Musing says:

    Hey RM, congratulations… always a silent reader and have to comment today. Wish you and entire R household (Including new member) loads of happiness.

  32. Deepika says:

    Congratulations RM!! I am so so happy for you πŸ™‚ God bless you all! πŸ™‚

  33. Mukund says:

    Cool! Congratulations!!! Rs reaction was the best. Take care and enjoy the journey once again. Deja Vu πŸ™‚
    Mukund

  34. Amitha Naik says:

    Congratulations. God bless your family. πŸ™‚

  35. Titaxy says:

    congratulations πŸ™‚
    and welcome, little one.

  36. Divya says:

    Aww..many many congratulations 2R’s mom…R akka sounds so great.

  37. Soooo happy for you RM…Thrilled to read this. sisters are the best! Adorable to hear that R is helping so much. Wishing you lots of joy and happiness in these temporarily hard sleepless nights, midnight feeds and all. God bless.

  38. Bhavani says:

    I was starting to get so worried about your absence and this is so Awesome….Congraats to all of you!! It is going to be only a fun ride….R rocks and she is going to be the best sister…

    Take care…

  39. Mrs B says:

    Dearest RM, ( rather R^2 M)

    Congratulations!!!!! I am so so happy to read this blog… I was afraid that you have stopped blogging; every day I used to pop by to see if there was a new blog!! So happy that this was the reason for the silence πŸ˜€
    May God bless you all!!
    P.S: all the people I know who have had babies this yr , have had girl babies only!!! It’s just awesome !!!

  40. My Era says:

    Heartiest Congratulations R family for an adorable addition of R2 to the family πŸ™‚
    Sending loads of love, blessings, hugs, kisses and best wishes to you & the little princess πŸ˜€

  41. Laila says:

    CONGRATS, CONGRATS, CONGRATS!!!
    Although I didn’t officially know you were expecting, my intuition was telling me that you are… Great news!!!

  42. Heartiest congrats to you and the family!!!! Girls are a sooper blessing – enjoy the precious newborn days….even though they are very intense, they also bring utmost joy!

  43. mamata says:

    Congratulations Dear R !!!!!! Be Blessed and stay Healthy. Take care, its going to be wonderful two adorable girl babies. Its Baby Mania going and pouring on all blogs !!

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  45. simple girl says:

    omg omg omg .. congratulations .. lots of love to R and R2 … πŸ™‚

  46. anisnest says:

    Congratulations to everyone in R’s household.. Can you send me her pic please?

  47. seema3 says:

    congrats on your new bundle of joy. They are so precious

  48. Preethi says:

    Congratulations RM! Wow, R is now a big sister. It is lovely to have 2 daughters.

  49. Comfy says:

    Oh my! That is such a beautiful heartfelt letter for the little precious thing that R2 is. R2 darling, welcome and love your R akka OK!
    Our dear R, your wish came true and I know you will be the best akka always.
    Hugs and lots of love to the entire R family πŸ™‚

  50. Nidhi says:

    delurking… cdnt resist it..
    heartiest congratulations…take care

  51. Sangitha says:

    Was so thrilled to hear of the little one! Wish you all a ton of joy and fun. You’ve got to give her another name for the blog, please – her own identity, another letter of the alphabet at least? Pretty please! Hope you’re recovering well! Lots of hugs!

  52. Gayatri says:

    Congratulations! More clips and bobbles for hair :). Have fun with big sis and little miss.
    Gayatri

  53. amita says:

    Heartiest congratulations to your dear RM. May your choicest wishes come true.

    Happy parenting

  54. Jay says:

    Congrats, R family!

  55. sjscribbles says:

    Congratulations RM on R2 !!! GOD BLESS your wonderful family !!!

  56. deepM says:

    What a surprise!!! Congratulations RM!!!

  57. chattywren says:

    Congratulations RM!! Best wishes to you all! Great post too in the midst of this all.

  58. raji says:

    Congratulations RM. Now you are RM square….. God bless your beautiful family.

  59. Congratulations to you, RD and the little older akka πŸ™‚ !! Happy for you. This was such a pleasant surprise. What have you named her?

  60. Heartiest congratulations! I have been following your blog for some time, but I just couldn’t resist wishing you and the little one the best!!! love xx

  61. nishasantosh says:

    I have always been a silent reader of your blog. As a mom of 2 girls myself, I can only say that you are gonna have double fun. Congratulations to the R family.

  62. Rachna says:

    Oh wow, so so happy for you. Welcome to the two child gang of madness. πŸ™‚ Heartiest congratulations and big hugs. So glad R2 is here. I can only imagine how happy R is. Lots of love to your mom too. How amazing is she! You take care.

  63. AA_Mom says:

    Congratulations RM – such wonderful news – Hope you all are adjusting in your new or improved roles

  64. Sumana says:

    Congratulations to R’s family. Wonderful news and blessed you are to have the little girl. All the best with the next set of parenting ventures.

  65. Sushma says:

    Congratulations RM!!! Hope you recover soon and come back to blogging! Can’t wait to hear all about the big and little sisters πŸ™‚

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