There are two things you need to work on if you want to happy in life
1. Not to open your mouth
2. Close your heart
Seriously, if you can achieve these two, you will be very successful.
You always seem to talk the wrong things at the wrong time..why, why, why…
Remember in the meeting the other day..some women’s collaboration and someone started talking about men women interaction..the meet was between 11.30 to 12.30..till 12.25 you shut up like a good girl, not opening your mouth..I was proud of you…..until the men women interaction thing came up and someone mentioned about men and women not interacting in the office..You HAD to open your big mouth.and talk nonsense (thats as per me!) about how this office doesn’t seem to have a very open forum…and despite of you apologising to all saying you may be wrong but you think its in the work culture, I think you were plain stupid just trying to attract attention..as soon as you stated the word work culture, ladies jumped on you ..it depends on the individual and all that…they basically stated that it depends on the individual whether they care about what others say..you agreed to them you should have shut up na…but you wouldnt will you?
…you had to continue maintaining this office has a man woman interaction problem as compared to other companies you have worked in..thats it, who asked you to open your mouth….people asked you to open up your outlook and broaden yourself…I mean which fool tells the senior management and all the women who have been in the company for over 20 years that their work culture doesnt encourage men women interaction..no seriously…so what if the lady talked about being the only woman in engineering college and you started some nonsense of it being in our culture especially in small towns where female male interaction is discouraged..please RM,you are in Bombay so just follow the ‘culture’ there…, couldnt you have just SHUT UP!!
or remember the time when NO ONE asked you for a safety issue and yet you had to go and brag about your experiences…I think you are just getting too much..if you learn to just shut up and listen and NOT share your views, you can continue working in this company!!!
You have always managed to open your mouth at the wrong places, tell the wrong things and then sit and repent on it…
so what if no one in the entire room answers the question posed, so what if the question poser seems very becahara wishing someone would answer, YOU ARE NOT OBLIGED to do it..you dont HAVE to be the ONE to do it..do you get it..uff! I am tired of telling this to you every time!!!
And of course about point 2, of course people hurt you..that doesnt mean you keep thinking about it in loop ALL DAY LONG! Stop being such a whiny baby…everyone gets angry, everyone forgets..some people take time, some people forgive immediately…you are not responsible for anyone’s action except yours okie? If someone feels bad, apologise and stop. After that, dont keep thinking and thinking and thinking..it will give you nothing but a bad case of head ache and ulcers..by the time you turn 40, you will have a heart attack at the rate you are feeling ‘bad’ about stuff…I mean when are you going to learn to ignore or not take everything to heart!
I hope you improve
Alterego and superiorly smart RM